Trying to find photos of an undercut that matches my hair thickness, because I’m probably shaving off the back and side of my hair on thursday. ohhh boy.
Anonymous asked: You have it backward, if you've never been to NYC first you have to do all the menial touristy things. All NYC people have done them as well, they just forgot about school trips. Once you get all the tourist traps out of the way, then you can enjoy the beauty of the city's lesser known. Plus, no tourists.
You know, you’re right.
Anonymous asked: What are the need to see places in nyc? I've never been.
But if you want to see New York, the type of New York that New Yorkers like, you’re going to have to take a trip.
Go down to Greenwich and The East Village. Check out all those vaguely-artsy vaguely-shitty looking restaurants, because I guarantee they’ll have the best food.
Walk around during the daytime and look at all the fantastic and bizarre and slightly upsetting graffiti works people spend hours in the middle of the night trying to immortalize in the city streets and walls.
Look at a cute gay hipster couple walking down the street holding hands and go into whatever bar they choose to at 6 PM on a wednesday night, no matter how “dive” it is because the happy hour cocktail specials will get you drunk and light up your insides.
Touristy is fine but it isn’t what New York is about. New York is about people who grew up here trying to make the best of their lives because they don’t know anything else.
New York is about people moving from small towns or big cities with high hopes and larger dreams.
New York is about a tightly woven mesh of fantastic people making bad decisions at inopportune moments.
New York can be whatever you want it to be if you open your eyes long enough to walk away from the blinding lights and chain establishments.
Anonymous asked: C'mon. Ru kidding me? I live in manhattan and I would love to go out with you. Trust me. Women are attracted to you. We're too afraid to do anything. Dont be afraid to make some bold moves. You'll probably get great responses.
That’s really sweet, but it isn’t that simple.
I haven’t figured out “how to get back out there” yet, and I don’t know if I really WANT to yet.
I’m dealing with a lot of things, and being on my own is good for me. It’s sexually frustrating and lonely at times, but it’s good for me.
I guess what worries me is not really knowing how to get back out there when the time comes, but that time isn’t here yet.
Anonymous asked: You finally over that girl?
Who, The Girl? Well, The Ex-Girl at this point, I guess.
Yeah. The time difference between now and when she decided to let me go pretty much matches the amount of time we were together, so I guess it’d be silly not to be over it.
She’s got her own shit to deal with. Things she’s struggling with, things she has to get over, changes she has to embrace for herself. She isn’t concerned about me and she shouldn’t be, and as much as I adored her I can’t hang on to the past. I deleted her off of my social media networks and my phone, because it seemed like the right thing to do for us both.
Never hang on to the past. All you end up with is a piece of regret that lives inside of you, burning more white-hot with every passing day and dwelling moment until it becomes too much for you to handle.
She’s going to do something fantastic in her own time, and I’ll be proud of her from the sidelines, keeping my distance.
Besides, I deserve to be with someone who will take me in and swallow me whole when we feel something starting to bloom and I couldn’t ask that of her.
Anonymous asked: Favorite Supernatural character? Mine's Cas xx
I think Castiel has to be everyone’s favorite character. Besides maybe Gabriel.
Anonymous asked: 4:28AM Are u at work?
Nope, but at 4:28 AM I was struggling to wake up for work.
Anonymous asked: u mister gots to lern how to take a joke
That isn’t a good joke there’s usually a laughing bit
Anonymous asked: u have big hair? overcompensating for something? lawl
Wait does having big anything mean I’m over compensating because I’m 6 foot 5 so like everything about me is huge, I wear size 16 shoes
thewaybackcomplex asked: Do you like stand up comedy and if so, who is your favorite?
I love stand up comedy. I want to write some someday. My favorites are Louis CK, Patton Oswalt, Wyatt Cenac, Eugene Mirman and John Mulaney.
Anonymous asked: Is there specific reason why you never shut up about this dominatrix? Yeah it's cool, but you mention it at every opportunity, even irrelevant ones.
Eh, it was probably the most intense and knowledge - gaining experience of my life, plus it was really crazy. It opened my eyes about a lot of things, the way we view sex as a people, the way we color sex workers, the whole “smart experienced woman teaching the younger guy” thing, plus from time to time I miss her. She was a genuinely sweet person.
Anonymous asked: whats ur fav beer?
I’m not picky on beer. I love most beer as long as It’s not really dark and thick. I can’t stand Guiness.
If I’m out drinking I’ll have a budweiser or a coors or a sam adams, it doesn’t really matter. If I’m having one or two beers, I really like Yeungling or Magic Hat #9. Magic hat is really great, it has an apricot under taste that really sticks with you.
Oh, but i hate Blue Moon. I used to be okay with it, until a friend at a bowling alley gave Sean and I a free pitcher of It. Something was wrong with the tap or something, the beer was thick and tasted like butter, it was fucking disgusting. Ever since Blue Moon makes me nauseous.
Anonymous asked: You have a history of being involved with a lot of women? i've had a history of being involved with a lot of men. Umm, 8 to be exact... is that a lot for a girl? :/
It doesn’t matter how many people you’ve been involved with. I lost my virginity in 2012 and I’ve slept with 9 women to date, and was romantically involved with more than that.
I once dated a dominatrix who had been with even more women than I have.
You shouldn’t care how many people you’ve been with and neither should your partner. You’re both adults capable of making decisions and as long as you’re being safe, go bananas.
If you and I are dating I don’t care how many people you’ve fucked or dated, because our number of sexual partners will both be “one” as long as we’re together.
Anonymous asked: awwwwz look at that face! who culdnt love that face?!
Most women, apparently!